You’re very busy planning your wedding, but you must remember this is the start of a marriage. Even if you are already living together,
here are some questions you should ask each other before you make the marriage commitment.
Sex – what you like and don’t like
– are you spenders or savers? What are your goals for the future (house, children, trips)
Career – do you support your partner’s career
choice? What are your job ambitions?
Kids – yes or no, how many
Division of Labour – who takes out the trash, does the dishes, laundry
etc., what happens when someone doesn’t do their part
In Laws – how often can they visit you, how often you visit them, where you spend
holidays, what to do if they interfere
Where is home – big city, suburbs, countryside, how big, keeping it within budget
– those cute quirks will quickly turn to annoying after a while – can you put up with it, or if asked nicely, can your partner stop
may want to write down your answers in case of future disagreement. It is OK to change your mind, but always talk it out with each
You want to end up like this,